1. The after effects of marriage
As you prepare to enter into marriage, you will need to
unscramble and negotiate all kinds of issues between you and your
partner. Marriage is also one of the biggest steps we all take in life.
Along with this big step we have to make certain changes so that the
person we tie the knot with is happy and content.
2. That flame dies out
It is true that after a year into the marriage the flame
which keeps you two together eventually dies out. It all depends on the
couple to reignite the love and make the marriage work.
3. Your health changes too
It’s been said that married men live longer, and whereas
lives of women’s shortens after marriage. Whether or not this is true,
marriage along with your lifestyle changes your health. Marriage can
also alter your spiritual and emotional health. Your lifestyle and the
way you live after marriage has an impact on your health whether for
good or for bad. And a healthy couple generally develops a strong and
lasting relationship.
4. Responsibilities become important
One of the major changes after marriage is the pile of
responsibilities that knock on your door. Both the individuals have to
work together and handle the responsibilities without burdening the
other.
5. Changes goals, dreams, desires
Your goals, dreams, wishes definitely changes after marriage,
however, for some it changes for the better and for the rest it changes
for the worse. Some people have to give up their dreams and desires
after marriage which makes them resentful. To have a successful
marriage, make sure that you follow the latter and not let anything
negatively impact your relationship.
6. When the fights begin
When two people from different walks of life are united in a
bond of matrimony, chances are that they will bicker a lot. You must
learn to understand each other more and more each day and learning to
accept each other differences too are important.
7. Taking care of two families from one
Marriage is a bond not only between two individuals but also
between two families, even between two cultures and religions. After
marriage, the girl expects her husband to respect and take care of her
parents equally to his parents and the same is expected by a husband
from his wife. Marriage teaches to maintain a proper balance between the
families and it is the most wonderful thing because it will stay with
you till your death.
8. Your priorities change too
As long as you were single there was no one telling you what
to do for you just did what you wanted to do. However, after marriage
things change a lot and one of them is your priorities. You have to
think about your spouse before you make a decision.
9. Work on your communication skills
The way we communicate changes in most of the cases. People
become more calm and composed in usual cases after marriage. You react
differently to situations than you used to when you were not married.
You learn to express yourself better and fix things in a calm manner.
This change comes because after getting married you realize that if
you’re going to be doing this for the rest of our lives we have to find
out how to communicate better otherwise you’re not going to get
anywhere.
10. You develop a sense of security
After marriage, you develop a deeper sense of security as you
will always have someone whom you can look forward to at any point of
time, when you need them, someone to talk to. You will always have
someone to lean on, go places with, and talk to, and share things with
and to take care of you. You’ll feel more secured and comfortable.
11. You learn how to compromise
Before marriage, you just expect things to happen your way
but once you get married, you simply can’t do things the way you used
to. You have to learn to compromise and to give and take. Marriage is
more about taking care of two instead on one. You’ll have to compromise
your likings and interests which might be of going to a movie just
because your partner wants to relax at home.
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